Things have been a little bit crazy lately. Some of my devoted readers may have noticed that I have been avoiding blogging about my personal life for a good while now, and there is a reason for this.
I have been trying to fill the blog void with posts about my trip, giveaways, generic filler posts that I really hate posting but it has been necessary as of late.
There have been exciting things developing in my life lately, but I have been afraid to share them with you because I have been waiting to make sure that things are more solid.
I've been waiting to make sure that things will not fall through.
So here is the amazing news:
Since his AIT has been doubled in length, and there has been chatter about his possible unit assignment, and a possible deployment right out of AIT, Mr. Dogtags and I have decided that it would be worth it for me to move to his AIT location!!!!
YAY!
At first, I was against the idea because the Army will not pay to move me, and why spend so much money to move for a mere 3-4 months, renting a U-Haul, let alone trusting myself to make such a far trip driving said U-Haul with one of our cars riding piggy back on a trailer pulled behind me. I've never driven anything bigger or longer than Mr. Dogtags' Dodge Ram 1500, so the thought more than terrified me.
Then we made a decision that I could live with. We decided that I would put everything in our storage unit, pack the car with the necessities, and drive there. What's better, is that my new best friend Melissa will be moving with me. Her husband Justin is roommates with Mr. Dogtags, and they are good friends. Melissa is pregnant and due in 10 weeks so it will be great for her to be near her husband when the baby comes, and neither of us will have to travel to see our husbands on labor day or to see them graduate...and those are just a FEW of the advantages.
We have secured a very nice apartment and (not easy to do when you live 1500 miles away) and we can NOT wait to get there.
So that's my exciting news!
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All that being said, I have had more than one other wife tell me I am absolutely CRAZY for making this move. I've been told it's not worth it, I've been told that its a waste of time and money. I've even been called "stupid".
Honestly, I don't care what anyone has to say. Thankfully there are those people in my life who understand exactly why I am making this move.
IF Mr. Dogtags DOES get deployed soon after AIT (which is not unheard of)
when you add a year long deployment to the 2 months of basic training and the 6 months of his AIT that is almost 2 solid years we would spend apart.
Am I really that crazy for wanting to spend as much time with him as I can right now?
And as far as the costs go, I'm just packing up the car and driving there. Other than the gasoline that I will be using to get there, and the security/pet deposit on the apartment, my costs are minimal. When I think of how much money I would have spent flying to see him for labor day weekend, and then again to see him graduate, I would have spent more to travel just to visit than I will be spending to actually move there.
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I have SO much to do. I am moving in less than 20 days! AHH! :)